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♥Thursday, October 9, 2008

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Surprised ku with all your feed back guys. And thanx for sharing with me. We can learn more kan. Ur words makes me smile.. makes us smile.. LOVE U GUYS... HUGSSSS ;)
And.. this is from the bottom of my heart..

Love is a feelings that comes naturally within our heart when u realise that ur feelings with him/her getting stronger each day. I divide love as a true love and fake love. Love is a commitment and responsibility & rembember only say it when u’re ready.

Best friend Based on honesty, sincerely, sensitivity & respect each other feelings. Someone who always be there for you when you need them, Someone to trust to keep all the personal/secrets & same topic in conversations. You even share the weird words! And And same with suzi.. someone who we can share all the dir** talks and stuff.. haha.. True friends will never die.

Soul mate Its a combination of love and best friends. Some one who’re really close to you. When both of you have a chemistry/instinct. Pieces of you missing when she/he is not there. And their feelings will never change within the period of time.
The Next Best Things consider as the malang-ness b,coz they're only needed for some purposes only.. not for long term use. When everythang settle and done they will gone without a trace and come back again for u for a little help ;)
* Family alwez be the 1st

From ; SUZILA A.. thanx darls.. really appreciate it.. ;)

Just a few thoughts from me:

LOVE : An undefined feeling that only you can feel, sometimes you feel on top of the world with it, sometimes you feel like s**t! For sure, you DON'T need a reason to love someone coz all you want is to be with him/her all the time.

BEST FRIEND : Someone you think of, not all the time, but when you are in need, or want to share something, he/she will be the first person you wanna see/contact. Someone you trust and he/she trusts you too. You two depend your lives on one another.

SOUL MATE : This is a greater version of Best Friend. For me, a soul mate is someone who I have the same thoughts with. Someone who ends my sentence, or someone who shares the same (dirty) jokes that nobody else can tell/get. In other words, SOUL MATES read each other's minds without even talking about it.

AS THE NEXT BEST THING : Personally, I pity those who are the NEXT BEST THING for anyone. In other words, this person is a 'second choice', which means, there is somebody else BETTER than him/her. It would really be very hurting for being the NEXT BEST THING...

* do agree darls..

From JIMMAH.. I know u too young to describe.. anyway thanx sayang ku..

Im still young to know what's love EXACTLY lah
"is the force of attraction, the best feeling in the world, it makes you go angau2 & its an undescribeable feeling".

From SCRAPPERMAYA , thanx dear ;) mahal tuu *copy dis from her blog n her comments arh SUZI ;)

Woo wow woo!! The psychiatrist is in da house! Hehehe :p may I add?
When you find a best friend who is later become your soulmate & that person is happened to be a guy. It's a sign he's the one for you ;) but if he's taken already, or you are w/ someone already then..Accept the fate. Atu yg sadih tu :(
I don't believe solely in LOVE only because to me, I need these 3 (Best friend, Soul mate & Love) to be w/ someone that you truly madly deeply need..Alhamdullilah I found my other half from becoming friend - best friend - soulmate - then I fell in love w/ him..*Aaaahhh* Hehehe..Well just want to share from my own experience :)
1 more thing if you're thinking the other 2nd person is better than your current other half, you have to analyse, why do you choose the first person? List down the pros & cons. Then compare. Try to think w/ an open mind not think w/ your heart. This is human, especially the female species like us tend to think using our 'heart'..Which makes me sad :(
So when you have someone, cherish them as long as you can, as long as they never hurt you physically, mentally or verbally. If he/she's not romantic, teach him/her slowly. If he/she's not perfect, embrace his/her perfect sides. If you think he/she's seems to forget about you, remind them always. If you he/she's no longer the same person, ask nicely. If you think you're no longer...feel anything for him/her, give chance. If you think you fall w/ other person, bear on your mind, why must you fall in love again? If you think nothing will work out, pray Istikharah. Insya-Allah, you'll find who's the one for you :)
Hope this will give some directions to anyone who need it. It just a humble talk from someone who experienced it either directly or indirectly. :)Well Suzi, I'm surprise at the result! Hehehe didn't expect to 'talk' this much. So I'm going to copy this comment on my blog too!

* ermm interesting :D

From MAMASHASHA , thanx dear ;)

Love - Love is universal. It could be love to your parents, siblings, friends and people around you. It is usually focus on when we are deeply in love with a person. It happened without warning , it cannot be seen through rough eyes and it came naturally. It is the inside feelings or emotion that you are fall in love with a person which might lead you to do something unpredictably and perhaps something stupid too. When this feelings hit you, you feel you are the luckiest person in the world. All people love to loved, right? It is a sweet feelings that everyone want to experience it and even wish the feelings will never stop.
Bestfriend - This person is someone special in someone’s live. Feelings of care, want to see and miss each other presence. You will never stop yourself without thinking them even thought not in single minute. Usually, they are always in your mind each day and you are wondering what are they doing. To them, you usually share stories and exchange ideas in any thoughts. He/ she will voice all the thoughts that he/she has in her mind just to help her bestfriend so that not lost and make sure they keep on the right track.
Soul Mate - This person must be someone that are really important and much more special than a bestfriend. You usually go through lives in each day with this person. He/she is always be there when you need them because they are with you in every single day. If he/she is away, you will feel half of you is totally gone. In other words, you and him/her cannot be separated. I would prefer this as husband and wife.
Next the best thing - You are the second best, then. If this happen, the comparation will take place and here where people differentiate you and with the best one through ability, capabitly, creativity, enthusiasm and etc.

* I agree sis..

From my Friend ..LOVE thanx lenxx.. saya terharu huk huk.. & sapa nyuruh m,post sal aku salah cakap remote control atu ahh.. haha.. linan linan~

This topic i dedicated for my friend anih. She have raised the question for definition of LOVE, BEST FRIEND, SOULMATES AND AS THE NEXT BEST THINGS. I'll just define it in a simple way..coz i am still in a learning process to know bout all those things.. Experience is the best teacher for us. So everyday is a learning process for me...

Love - undescribe, infinite definition, make us smile, happy, cry and teach us lots of feeling, long lasting even if we have breakup or not in the relationship with her/him anymore coz he/her is one of the best thing ever happen in our life..the memory remains forever.

Bestfriend - sum1 closed to us. Sum1 we can share everything with even the humiliating things happen to us. Sum1 who can makes us feel comfortable in any ways. And most of all, sum1 who keeps holding our hands in any way..

Soul mate - hard to define (even a 15 years married couple can't tell if their husband/wife are their soulmate) but from my opinion, they are so lucky if they found their soulmate.soulmate are sum1 who mix and match with u. Have same thought. Even if u are not sharing any common things but u still feel comfortable and happy with him/her.he/her can accept u for who u are and sum1 who are being sincere in a relationship. respect each other and most of all, soulmates are sum1 who can be sum1 u love, sum1 who can be ur bestfriend, sum1 who always be there for you and u feel complete with him/her beside you.

As the next best things - from my opinion, no body can decide whether he/she can make anyone "as the next best things" but it is not a crime for keep trying to find the best things in our life. As long as it is not hurting anybody's feeling, it would be just fine. Hoping and wishing in a good way is not a crime.

*thanx lenx... banar tuuu

From HANNA ; Thanx.. really apreciate it.. :)

Definition of:

LOVE ~ Love is universal. Cinta kpd ibu bapa, Tuhan, teman2, kekasih, etc. Love can be wonderful if people know how to appreciate it. But love can also be hurtful if people dont know how to appreciate it. To me, I never believe in true love. True love never exists in my life's dictionary.

SOUL MATE ~ soul mate is someone who is an opposite sex you are close with. You share the goods and bads, ups and downs wit him/her. Soulmates also will be very open to each other. When I say open, I meant very open-minded. Doing silly jokes and dirty little secrets they might have shared together - even every inch of his/her soulmate's body, they will also know.

BEST FRIEND ~ bestfriend does not necessarily have to be your close friends. It can be our own real sisters or brothers. Real true bestfriend can only be called when they know the real you inside and outside.

THE NEXT BEST THINGS ~ umm im not quite sure what it means abt this.

*Thanx dear & I agree.. 65% of me nda believe in true love

& a wilting flower left on the bench♥